September 19, 2011

Our official number did go up this month to #33. With this we were grateful, though there is much hurt amongst families right now who are in several stages of the referral and finalization process. There is an uncertainty and heart ache for the children and families caught in the midst.

At this time we have come to realize that our well thought out plan for financing a large portion of the adoption expenses will not come to fruition, as the tax refund we were counting on expires at the end of December and additional fees for updating our homestudy and USCIS fingerprints will start to add on to the original cost. While disappointing and a bit worrisome, we know it will all be worth it once she is here with us! We are so appreciative of friends and family who are supporting us in many ways as we come to this understanding. One group of friends is putting together a Trivia Night in October as a fundraiser to offset these costs. We are hoping the participants have a good time and we are most thankful for this gathering and their efforts to help, whether it is through their time, words of encouragement, food donations, or participating in the event. While it was our choice to adopt and while we had a plan laid out to pay for the costs, it is meaningful when others support our choice and extend a hand when those plans don't quite go accordingly. She will come to our family with the hopes and help of many!

August 23, 2011

So Emmett keeps carrying around this baby doll (the only one we have in the house) and is calling him "my sister". He is very diligent with his/her care- making sure we are quiet when she is sleeping and covering him/her up with blankets. He calls her "Coco". It really is quite sweet...

Our official number for August is #39 and in the past week there have been 3 referrals so we are at #36 unofficially. It feels good to be in the 30's and hoping this trend continues!

We are celebrating with friends of ours from church who were amongst those given a referral last week. The were matched with a 4 month old baby boy! We are thrilled for them as they entered parenthood with one phone call! Such joy!

July 17, 2011

Jeremy said this morning, "I've been thinking about our daughter more lately..."

We are officially #42 for July! (Unofficially #41) So happy for the movement! Would love to get in the 30's by August! Heard that MOWA is up to 15 cases a day. Hope that more and more will be able to be reviewed with each passing day!

Jeremy's mom made quilts for the all of the kids, including our daughter to be! She was so kind to use all of colors from her bedding in her room and it matches perfectly! Her room is slowly coming together!

June 26, 2011

This month was one of mixed reports. It started out a bit dismal with our June numbers staying the same as the month before...#49. No movement is difficult and yet each weeks begins with anticipation in possibilities. As the weeks went on there were some court dates set and children coming home with their forever families, which was exciting to see! And then last week several families finally received referrals! To see that news shared on the listserv truly brings such joy! As of Friday our "unofficial" number is #44. We also heard word that MOWA has stated they are now reviewing 10 cases a day instead of 5. While not leaps and bounds, it is a step in the right direction. Still praying that they can receive support and resources to review more and more cases with each passing day.

May 29, 2011

I painted her room today! Just something neutral as her bedding has such bright colors (orange, pink, aqua, green, brown). As I rolled on the paint, covering up the ABCs I painted on the walls 10 years ago I felt renewed. With each stroke of paint I was bringing hope for what is to come. I have found a few other items to match the bedding and now I love opening the door and it brings me happiness to think of our daughter in this room.
We are still so far away, but I continue to pray for her to come to us soon.

May 23, 2011

We are officially #49 for May. Glad to break the 50 mark and trying to stay positive. We started at 95, so it's about half way now! The boys are getting more and more excited about their sister who they don't even know! I am starting to move the baby stuff out of the nursery and Emmett asked the other day "Who's room is this?" I was explaining to him that it will be his sister's room, which prompted the question, "Where is my sister?" I went on to explain to him that she is in Ethiopia and we will have to wait for her. He will often ask when he sees little girls out in public if THAT is his sister? Then he will seem to answer himself and reply, "No, that's not my sister, we have to wait..." Yes, buddy, this waiting stuff isn't easy!

April 26, 2011

As April comes to a close I again find myself yearning for some really good news. Since Mid March there have not been many referrals. Our official number went to #54 this month, so a 6 spot move was good, but not all that encouraging. The wait is starting to become a little more difficult as we approach our one year mark from starting the process.
I am starting to think of some ideas for fundraising as it is looking like we might not be finalized by the end of December, in order to get the tax credit we have been anticipating to help offset expenses. A project to focus on is helpful in this waiting time as well.