Sunday, March 4, 2012
February 8, 2012
We are officially #25 for January (#24 unofficially). We have been informed from our agency that the embassy clearance time has currently increased to 4-6 months. Hoping for some positive changes to happen soon!
Sunday, January 8, 2012
January 1, 2012
Happy New Year! As this year begins I look ahead with hope in the difference a year can make. Last night as we were all ringing in the new year, Gavin turned to me said, "Next year it'll be six!" (as in the number of members in our family) It warmed my heart to think of the possibility and that he so tenderly thought of it too.
Over the advent season I was asked to do a reading at one of the services. Part of it centered around waiting...and how "the wait is almost over." It continued on with encouragement, "Instead of waiting, what if we began a journey of hope..." I liked that thought. Waiting is inactive and passive. A journey is taking part and moving forward with hope in what lies ahead.
We are officially #28 for December (#27 unofficially). Yearning that we get to know who our daughter is soon on this incredible journey of hope!
Over the advent season I was asked to do a reading at one of the services. Part of it centered around waiting...and how "the wait is almost over." It continued on with encouragement, "Instead of waiting, what if we began a journey of hope..." I liked that thought. Waiting is inactive and passive. A journey is taking part and moving forward with hope in what lies ahead.
We are officially #28 for December (#27 unofficially). Yearning that we get to know who our daughter is soon on this incredible journey of hope!
November 23, 2011
We are officially #31 for November. No movement this month...
I made my first doll purchase! She is this adorable little cloth doll with these pom pon pigtails just like I've pictured our daughter!
http://www.prettypuffdolls.com/index.html
I made my first doll purchase! She is this adorable little cloth doll with these pom pon pigtails just like I've pictured our daughter!
http://www.prettypuffdolls.com/index.html
Saturday, November 12, 2011
November 12, 2011
Our one year anniversary of entering the waitlist was on October 27th, and I couldn't help but think that a year ago when we headed out for Trick or Treating with the boys we were planning what our daughter might be for Halloween this year, certain she would be with us by now...
Our official number for October was #31.
Our agency just emailed out their monthly update and one part of it brought great encouragement in this time when our souls are wearing from waiting and the end result still seems so far out of reach. I have include this portion of the update below.
"We understand that these past several months in the Ethiopia program have been difficult for many of you. Over the course of the past several months, many of you have walked with us through several changes in the adoption process in Ethiopia, increased wait times due to program changes, obstacles in your adoption journey, or changing requirements. Yet, here you are, continuing to be faithful in this journey of adoption that God has called you to.
You have chosen a hard road in adoption -- he road less traveled -- and while God knew it would be hard, He still called you to this. He has asked you to step out in this adventure. He has placed on your hearts a specific child and is working to bring together your stories. Why this particular journey? We do not know the God's reasons for the specifics of each of your journeys. We do know, though, that He knew this journey when you started; He still wants you on this path, and the child that you are waiting for -- the child He has asked you to trek this journey for -- is worth that wait in whatever stage of the process you may find yourself today."
Thank you for walking this road with us...we are grateful for the ways you carry us when the journey seems too long and for the emotional wounds you have bandaged when the path has gotten rough and for the nourishment you provide for our spirits when our own provisions are low. We know that we are not on this journey alone and that in itself brings me hope. Happy Thanksgiving in this time of gratitude for all the blessings we have in our lives!
Our official number for October was #31.
Our agency just emailed out their monthly update and one part of it brought great encouragement in this time when our souls are wearing from waiting and the end result still seems so far out of reach. I have include this portion of the update below.
"We understand that these past several months in the Ethiopia program have been difficult for many of you. Over the course of the past several months, many of you have walked with us through several changes in the adoption process in Ethiopia, increased wait times due to program changes, obstacles in your adoption journey, or changing requirements. Yet, here you are, continuing to be faithful in this journey of adoption that God has called you to.
You have chosen a hard road in adoption -- he road less traveled -- and while God knew it would be hard, He still called you to this. He has asked you to step out in this adventure. He has placed on your hearts a specific child and is working to bring together your stories. Why this particular journey? We do not know the God's reasons for the specifics of each of your journeys. We do know, though, that He knew this journey when you started; He still wants you on this path, and the child that you are waiting for -- the child He has asked you to trek this journey for -- is worth that wait in whatever stage of the process you may find yourself today."
Thank you for walking this road with us...we are grateful for the ways you carry us when the journey seems too long and for the emotional wounds you have bandaged when the path has gotten rough and for the nourishment you provide for our spirits when our own provisions are low. We know that we are not on this journey alone and that in itself brings me hope. Happy Thanksgiving in this time of gratitude for all the blessings we have in our lives!
Sunday, October 16, 2011
September 19, 2011
Our official number did go up this month to #33. With this we were grateful, though there is much hurt amongst families right now who are in several stages of the referral and finalization process. There is an uncertainty and heart ache for the children and families caught in the midst.
At this time we have come to realize that our well thought out plan for financing a large portion of the adoption expenses will not come to fruition, as the tax refund we were counting on expires at the end of December and additional fees for updating our homestudy and USCIS fingerprints will start to add on to the original cost. While disappointing and a bit worrisome, we know it will all be worth it once she is here with us! We are so appreciative of friends and family who are supporting us in many ways as we come to this understanding. One group of friends is putting together a Trivia Night in October as a fundraiser to offset these costs. We are hoping the participants have a good time and we are most thankful for this gathering and their efforts to help, whether it is through their time, words of encouragement, food donations, or participating in the event. While it was our choice to adopt and while we had a plan laid out to pay for the costs, it is meaningful when others support our choice and extend a hand when those plans don't quite go accordingly. She will come to our family with the hopes and help of many!
At this time we have come to realize that our well thought out plan for financing a large portion of the adoption expenses will not come to fruition, as the tax refund we were counting on expires at the end of December and additional fees for updating our homestudy and USCIS fingerprints will start to add on to the original cost. While disappointing and a bit worrisome, we know it will all be worth it once she is here with us! We are so appreciative of friends and family who are supporting us in many ways as we come to this understanding. One group of friends is putting together a Trivia Night in October as a fundraiser to offset these costs. We are hoping the participants have a good time and we are most thankful for this gathering and their efforts to help, whether it is through their time, words of encouragement, food donations, or participating in the event. While it was our choice to adopt and while we had a plan laid out to pay for the costs, it is meaningful when others support our choice and extend a hand when those plans don't quite go accordingly. She will come to our family with the hopes and help of many!
Sunday, August 28, 2011
August 23, 2011
So Emmett keeps carrying around this baby doll (the only one we have in the house) and is calling him "my sister". He is very diligent with his/her care- making sure we are quiet when she is sleeping and covering him/her up with blankets. He calls her "Coco". It really is quite sweet...
Our official number for August is #39 and in the past week there have been 3 referrals so we are at #36 unofficially. It feels good to be in the 30's and hoping this trend continues!
We are celebrating with friends of ours from church who were amongst those given a referral last week. The were matched with a 4 month old baby boy! We are thrilled for them as they entered parenthood with one phone call! Such joy!
Our official number for August is #39 and in the past week there have been 3 referrals so we are at #36 unofficially. It feels good to be in the 30's and hoping this trend continues!
We are celebrating with friends of ours from church who were amongst those given a referral last week. The were matched with a 4 month old baby boy! We are thrilled for them as they entered parenthood with one phone call! Such joy!
July 17, 2011
Jeremy said this morning, "I've been thinking about our daughter more lately..."
We are officially #42 for July! (Unofficially #41) So happy for the movement! Would love to get in the 30's by August! Heard that MOWA is up to 15 cases a day. Hope that more and more will be able to be reviewed with each passing day!
Jeremy's mom made quilts for the all of the kids, including our daughter to be! She was so kind to use all of colors from her bedding in her room and it matches perfectly! Her room is slowly coming together!
We are officially #42 for July! (Unofficially #41) So happy for the movement! Would love to get in the 30's by August! Heard that MOWA is up to 15 cases a day. Hope that more and more will be able to be reviewed with each passing day!
Jeremy's mom made quilts for the all of the kids, including our daughter to be! She was so kind to use all of colors from her bedding in her room and it matches perfectly! Her room is slowly coming together!
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